A remembrance.

I was busy around, but suddenly i thought of an article written in The Star some times ago, so I'm here to share. It was categorised under the public critics, perhaps its a story to be shared and seeking for the advice and counselling from the expert of a psychologist. Here it goes. A woman was in her 40s described herself as pretty, sexy, single mother with 2 children, secured job, love sex parties and was dumped by her husband some years ago.

The reason for her husband to dump her was because of her personality and behaviour of having parties until late midnight. She complained that her husband would scold her in front of their children if she ever came back to home late at night. As she said, this was embarrasing. Well, there was a day her husband found out that she had an one night stand with her colleague and that was the main reason her husband stepped out of the world of living under the 'creepy' family which his wife had an affair with her own colleague. She admitted it was her fault but then she said on the newspaper that her husband was only envy of her for having parties [wild] until the late midnights which her husband did not have the chance to go for it. And she seek for advices if she finds a guy to be her future partner, will him accept her past that she'd such a bad personalities?

When i read this, i felt like, WTH?! I thought she should be very grateful to have such a nice and good husband to stay at home at night to look after their children instead if going out with his 'brothers' for a drink? But she? Love sexy clothes and went out for parties until late midnight and more worst, having one night stand with her colleague while her husband was at home taking care of her children?! Oh my.. I pity her husband, luckily he had made a right choice for dumping her though he has had children with her. Maybe she deserved the scolding from her husband in front of her children, guess they want their mommy too! But i guess, if this happened to a guy having sex affair, surely and undoubtedly his wife would do the same thing, perhaps with an extra 'slap', property and alimony.
She was advised that if she wanted a life partner to accept her past, she has to change her attitude and behaviour and start being a good wife of a man rather than attending sex parties again. " If he loves you, he will accept everything of yours and will not counting the past bad thing about you." I guess it is true, but sometimes it will be a little harder to face it if human are involved in this situation. >.<

I feel damn boring now, it has been raining for the whole day and i, of course staying under my roof in my room. Searching for funny short clips and downloaded them, played my ipod, listening to songs, reading newspaper like an old man, sms-ing and studied for a moment. Guess i need some rests but my brain just won't stop functioning! Brain damaged? Or brain over-usage?

My ipod.


JUN.